Popular Nollywood actress, Iyabo Ojo, has issued a warning to men about their relations with other women aside their spouses.
Taking to her Instagram page on Friday, June 30, she cautioned men to pick their female companions carefully as women generally do not appreciate sharing their partners with other women.
She wrote, “From a Mother to MAN.
“If you have a reputation to protect, please guide it, protect it, never get carried away, and associate yourself with a person who has got nothing to lose. It never ends well …… be wise…..
“If there is not one person who is level-headed in your circle, and can check you when need be, please adjust your circle….. be humble. Hidden secret of a woman's heart.
“No woman wants to truly share a man, but some will allow it because of culture, religion, financial benefits, or sexual pleasures……. but deep down in a woman's heart, she secretly desires to own the man all to herself. Note: some will accept their fate, while some will rather destroy everything if they can’t achieve their goals….be aware…….
“Woman disobeyed God, so who is man? that you’re not mindful of woman? Woman has caused wars between warriors, kings, and nations, so, who are you …… be informed…..
“Man, the stick, between your legs are not as strong as the word “MAN” sounds, if you lack self-control, then know your stick will have no respect for emotions, ….. your heart can never be prepared for the mistakes that await you…… be cautious……
“You can never be wiser than the one who first ate the fruit of the forbidden tree of knowledge of good and evil….. be guided. ……
“When things happen to your fellow man, you’re not to mock nor judge, but learn from it so that you don’t find yourself in a similar situation or worse……….. be in control."
I understand where she's coming from. It hurts a lot when a husband you love and trust so much hurts you again and again, it makes you lose trust in that person. And this men should also understand that women have feelings too.
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